 A woman today is more liberal with her body and sassier than women of past generations and is more likely to take the initiative in seducing a man. However, this does not mean that they are all having great private life. In fact both men and women are complaining that they are not getting enough intimacy. According to Dr. Andres Atwood, there are as many as 17 million married men and women in the United States that have none to minimal intimacy. (Related article: Without great time in bed, couples may destroy their relationship) Today's men are not content with a docile woman in their bed. If a woman wants to be considered good, she has to demonstrate more confidence and also show that she has experience. While men in the past may have appreciated ignorant women, but the men of present time want their partner to be equally competent. Most men today are beginning to demand intimacy more often. While their fore-fathers spent more time outside the home considering that it was unmanly to be close to their family, modern man is more of a family-man. As a woman then, it is important to appreciate this new reality. Here are some great kamasutra inspired tips. (Related article: How naughty women please their men?) Don't be shy Most men are for it. Don’t always wait for them to feel that they are the only one who want it. Today, most men do not want a woman to submit herself for the sake of their pleasure. Generally, they expect a little more enthusiasm and participation. No wonder that women who demonstrate the desire seem so much more desirable simply because they have the confidence to show it. (Related article: Tips on getting rid of shyness) |
Prolong the pleasure
The average duration of an intimate encounter is six minutes. On the other hand, women generally require 15-20 minutes to be fully ready. The woman can do a lot to prolong the pleasure for her partner and, as a result, for her. By cooling the game when she feels that it’s moving too fast – a gentle little word, slower breath, a break or a change in rhythm – this could suffice to distract. A lot of women tend to make a lot of noise which men like but it also makes them so much more excited, and hence, a shorter holding time. The woman has to make a delicate tradeoff between showing off her pleasure and prolonging the pleasure.
The average duration of an intimate encounter is six minutes. On the other hand, women generally require 15-20 minutes to be fully ready. The woman can do a lot to prolong the pleasure for her partner and, as a result, for her. By cooling the game when she feels that it’s moving too fast – a gentle little word, slower breath, a break or a change in rhythm – this could suffice to distract. A lot of women tend to make a lot of noise which men like but it also makes them so much more excited, and hence, a shorter holding time. The woman has to make a delicate tradeoff between showing off her pleasure and prolonging the pleasure.
Wear some exciting lingerie
Most males are stimulated by smell – you are not wrong to spend fortunes on fragrance – but also get excited by looking. 80 percent of men prefer silk underwear as opposed to 20 percent who go for the plain white cotton stuff. Change the lingerie. Push-up bras, matching sets, corsets, negligees, T-backs, kimonos, body suits, boxers, garters, fishnet stockings; whatever you like. A man loves it when you make him see all the colors, sizes and shapes. The surprise
When done at fixed days or fixed hours quickly becomes monotonous. This is a real problem when a man's life is so strongly controlled by work. Men have all kinds of fantasies: with a nurse, cowgirl, flight attendant, etc. It works out perfectly if the woman behaves shamelessly once in a while – especially if she usually isn’t. Seduction is the key to an exciting life.
Most males are stimulated by smell – you are not wrong to spend fortunes on fragrance – but also get excited by looking. 80 percent of men prefer silk underwear as opposed to 20 percent who go for the plain white cotton stuff. Change the lingerie. Push-up bras, matching sets, corsets, negligees, T-backs, kimonos, body suits, boxers, garters, fishnet stockings; whatever you like. A man loves it when you make him see all the colors, sizes and shapes. The surprise
When done at fixed days or fixed hours quickly becomes monotonous. This is a real problem when a man's life is so strongly controlled by work. Men have all kinds of fantasies: with a nurse, cowgirl, flight attendant, etc. It works out perfectly if the woman behaves shamelessly once in a while – especially if she usually isn’t. Seduction is the key to an exciting life.
Do not hold back
Just show it as you feel. We have been traditionally told to be neutral and that affects our behaviour in bed. Stop making mechanical love, just for the heck of it, without really desiring it, without conviction. So bring out the wild side. Do things that you may not be doing on a regular basis. Try it in unusual places and there is nothing wrong with trying unusual things too.
Just show it as you feel. We have been traditionally told to be neutral and that affects our behaviour in bed. Stop making mechanical love, just for the heck of it, without really desiring it, without conviction. So bring out the wild side. Do things that you may not be doing on a regular basis. Try it in unusual places and there is nothing wrong with trying unusual things too.
